FEATURE: SEX OUTSIDE THE BED with Dr. TY ADAMS

Here is another post by a very powerful insightful woman of God Dr. Ty Adams.



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Daddy's Girl

WHAT IS LOVE?

By the world's standards and definition LOVE is a feeling. When you are in love with a person it releases certain endorphins in the body and causes feelings of euphoria. You are so high on this surge of emotion that this other person evokes that the word love is often equated to that feeling.

To me love is a choice, it isn't just a feeling of euphoria. I think that you choose to love a person in spite of who they are. Think about it... None of us walking this earth are perfect. We all have faults, some more prevalent than others, but we ALL have flaws. There is someone out there who loves us despite the imperfections that we see in ourselves. You all have spouses, significant others, children, friends, family members that love you in spite of who you are.

I think that love is not selfish. Love makes each and every one of us put our best foot forward. Love makes you want to do anything to please that person. Love doesn't seek out it's own selfish gain. You don't think in the back of your mind, what am I going to get out of loving this person? You give your heart to someone because you choose to.

Love is still love even when there may be dissension between a couple. When the feeling of anger replaces the bliss of love for the time being does that mean you love eachother any less? No it doesn't, simply because love isn't just a feeling. Feelings can change with as easily as the wind blows. Our feelings can lead us astray. Love is a choice, it's an action, it's something that is always evolving and growing.

Love is giving, love is kind, it's gentle and sweet, love is patient, love doesn't hurt. I think our one true example of love being all these things is the love that God showed us when He came down from glory, removed Himself from His throne, clothed himself in flesh to be our sacrifice so that we may have life everlasting. Can you imagine growing up your whole life knowing the death that you would have to die for people who didn't even like you, for people who didn't just not like you but were your enemy? Mothers, can you imagine giving your only child up for the sake of a bunch of undeserving strangers who didn't even know your child? How much can someone love another if they are willing to sacrifice their one and only son. That is called AGAPE love, that is the ultimate kind of love.

Each and every day I try to love with that kind of love. I love unselfishly, not expecting anything in return. I give wholeheartedly, I try to live according the Word that says love is quick to listen and slow to anger. I try to love with a love that doesn't have conditions. I don't judge and I love in spite one's imperfections. I love with my mind and not just my heart. So when I think about what is love? I think that love is kind and sweet, simple and complex, strong, dynamic, overpowering, all encompassing, easy and of free will.

So my word tonight for all those out there who aren't sure what love is I suggest you study the bible on love and you'll see real love in action from genesis to revelation.

Peace & Blessings

CAN WE SET THE STANDARD AND MAKE A CHANGE?

So today I woke up extra excited that I actually got one wheel in my huge master plan turning! This blog is actually a part of a big plan and so I've been thinking all day, what am I going to write about? What do I have to say? Is it profound? Does it have to be profound? No... it doesn't lol. All it has to do is make sense and make a point, right? What I want to talk about today is the importance of not losing sight of your dreams. This is very dear to my heart because I have always been a person who has had big dreams, dreams so big that I'm sure behind my back people thought that I was crazy and probably still do! The point is to never be concerned by what someone else thinks about you. How someone else feels about me does NOT define who I am. What defines me is how God sees me and how I need to learn how to see myself! If you're given these ideas, maybe it's because we're supposed to do something with them! I believe that we weren't put here to just work for someone else all of our lives. The Bible says that we are to be the head and not the tail, and that we are to be lenders and not borrowers. How can we do that if we're caught up in the everyday rat race barely making ends meet? I think in this day and age it is the time for us to set ourselves apart, let's stop letting the stock market determine who will have jobs or not have jobs today or tomorrow! We have to stir up that entrepreneurial spirit that is on the inside of all of us and start coming up with some God inspired ideas that will not only put us in a position of power, but because it was an idea given to us by God it is blessed and therefore will be prosperous!

I believe that now is the time for us to set ourselves up for owning our own businesses so that we can help other people in need, by providing jobs in the community, having the cash flow to be able to bless a person without hurting afterwards. We have to think BIG! Remember when you were a kid, how easy it was to think that you could be the president of the United States? Remember when it was OK to say I'm going to be a rocket scientist and believe it without batting an eye? We have to get back to that kid kind of faith that allows us to believe that we can. Somehow, in our transition from childhood to adulthood we lose sight of that kind of faith, we also start to think that it's not possible to become all those things that we thought we could do as children. However, NOTHING is impossible with God. If you trust Him, you can do all things... We can't be selfish or stingy with our gifts and talents, because remember God uses people to bless people, not using your gifts and talents or even doubting that you are capable is calling God a liar and our Father is not a man that He shall lie, we need to see ourselves how He sees us. We need to love ourselves like He loves us. If we could all just get a revelation of how He loves us and how He sees us then maybe we could all start to believe it and live up to that standard that He has called us to live! There are only people that you can touch, there are only people that will be able to receive from you, not using the resources that God has given you could cost you that person's soul. We are here not to just get blessed and keep it to ourselves but we are here to bless others. Let's face it, we live in a material world. The better you dress the better you are perceived, the more expensive car you drive the more successful you are assumed to be, if we live in a society that requires you to look and act and dress a certain way just to say that you are successful then, we have to start putting ourselves in the position to be able to play the part. How are you going to tell the young aspiring drug dealer to get off the corner, when he's just trying to hustle up some money for an official pair of True Religion $200 jeans when you're wearing Wrangler. Sad but true, that he would be able to tell the difference. How are you going to impress him, this young kid on the corner when you are rolling up in a put- put with an $80. bible. That won't impress today's generation. We have to look the part and we were called to be blessed and prosperous. Let's live up to our potential. Don't let your mind get in the way of your dreams. If you have dreams, write them down, post them on your walls so that you are reminded of them everyday and make a plan to make it happen! You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. You are the head and not the tail. Don't sell yourself short.

In the beginning

I decided to start this blog as a way of release.  I've always written and expressed myself through songs and poetry but since working a high stress very demanding career I've found that my creativity has been stifled.  As I've noticed this I've asked God to bring the gift of expression back to me.  Stir up all those creative juices so that I can bless the world with what He has given me.  To introduce myself I am Daddy's Girl and the Daddy that I am referring to in my name is my heavenly father, my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.  I am a Christian woman and this blog site will definitely have Christian content as I can not hide or deny who I am however, my main purpose in this blog is to have real talk about real situations that people go through and how we can get through these situations together.  I have many interests that are in different areas and you will notice that as my entries progress.  I hope that you enjoy.  Be blessed.